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Comment on Bad Day by degravified

degravified — Sat, 21 Apr 2007 05:24:30 +0000

oh tanda…i know all too well what that feels like. loosing maddy was one of worst days of my life. i’m sorry you had to deal with stupidity on top of the tragedy what an ass!…that was not right. and i’m glad the officer stuck up for you.
i saw pix of your new puppy. and i know it will never replace lily…but it will help. my mazy helped me get through losin maddy. well mazy and jess…she was amazing…i think that’s when she became the “mom”
i love you my girl!
~ps. rambling is what blogs are for!

Comment on Job by degravified

degravified — Sat, 31 Mar 2007 01:41:40 +0000

i understand. success brings with it it’s own set of stresses. even moreso than not succeeding. raises the bar so to speak.
it’s easy to stay where we are. even if it’s not the best place for us..it’s normalcy..it’s what we are attatched to…it brings comfort.
at any rate…taking the job is moving forward. you may like it you may not. but you did a very brave thing in not standing still and taking a shot at change!

Comment on Job by jlgoins

jlgoins — Tue, 27 Mar 2007 23:50:19 +0000

I can relate! Who knows though, maybe you’ll attach to this job and it will be a very good thing. I’m glad you decided to give it a shot.

Comment on Saying NO by degravified

degravified — Sun, 18 Mar 2007 16:53:09 +0000

so. if tanda said “no!’ to jess’ “are you addicted to yes” question…would it be theraputic or just a lie?
just wonderin…

i used to have this very problem. then i decided…my time is my time. who has the right to infringe on it? so i say no on a regular basis. funny…people don’t feel the need to ask quite so ofen now. and when t they do i am more inclined to say yes because i feel it’s a genuine need.

which leads me to this thought…perhaps they…whoever they happens to be…tend to ask you because you never say no.
asking you is their conditioned response to the fact that you never say no.
two addictions here..theirs and yours..
break the cycle tanda! your time is yours. be kind about it, but do with it as you will.

and that’s all i have to say about that.
~cynmum

Comment on Saying NO by jlgoins

jlgoins — Fri, 16 Mar 2007 20:01:22 +0000

I understand. However, I want to point out to you the little talk you gave me last weekend about what you learned at church.
This sound strangely like something I was watching on TV last night. It was a documentary about addiction, and some lady from some impressive university was explaining how addiction works. The “GO” system in your brain gets a little too uppity, you see. And before the temporal lobe, or the center for reasoning and good decision making has even had a chance to react, you’ve already started doing whatever it was you’re addicted to. It sounds like your “GO” system is a little uppity. Are you addicted to yes?

Comment on First Time by degravified

degravified — Fri, 16 Mar 2007 02:56:11 +0000

tanda! we are blogging buddies now! woo hoo.
i do not think you need spell correctly or use caps and punctuation properly in your blog. i do not. it’s my blog after all.
yes jessica. i said it was not necessary to use caps, spell correctly or use proper punctuation. ::ducks impeding swing::

welcome to cyberland tanda.

Comment on First Time by jlgoins

jlgoins — Thu, 15 Mar 2007 20:27:02 +0000

Blogginess is next to Godliness, Tanda. I love you and your misspelled words.

Comment on Hello world! by Mr WordPress

Mr WordPress — Wed, 14 Mar 2007 15:46:12 +0000

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